And while I am a mom and all that, Mother's Day is also the day I graduated from college.
In 1998.
Go ahead, do the math on your fingers. This is the last year you will have enough fingers for all of the years because I graduated 10 years ago.
And honestly, I'm pretty okay with how those 10 years have gone. I spent five of those 10 years married to my now estranged husband. I spent six years working for a company I probably never should have left, but I did. I spent three months living in Tunisia. I've spent the last four years being a mom to a really great kid. I've traveled and seen some amazing things. I bought a bar and helped to keep it open for two years now. And I've spent the past several months working in a challenging and often exciting and certainly frustrating new field.
I was never one of those people with a plan. If you had asked me on my graduation day where I would be in 10 years, I don't know what I would have said. My answer probably wouldn't have matched where I'm at now. But that doesn't really matter. What does matter, is that I'm happy with where I am. I'm happy with the ups and downs of the last 10 years. If you asked me today, I couldn't tell you what I will be doing in another 10 years. I just don't know. I haven't thought that far ahead. But I'm okay with that.
I'm happy now and I'm confident I'll be happy then, too.
It's a good feeling.
ETA: Picture of me on Mother's Day.
Show us your bible.
Submitted by Connie.
Originally from my nedesque pal's blog.
What we have here is the top 106 books most often marked as "unread" by LibraryThing’s users. As in, they sit on the shelf to make you look smart or well-rounded. Bold the ones you've read, underline the ones you read for school, italicize the ones you started but didn't finish.
Anna Karenina
Crime and Punishment
Catch-22
One Hundred Years of Solitude
Wuthering Heights
The Silmarillion
Life of Pi : a novel
The Name of the Rose
Don Quixote
Moby Dick
Ulysses
Madame Bovary
The Odyssey
Pride and Prejudice
Jane Eyre
The Tale of Two Cities
The Brothers Karamazov
Guns, Germs, and Steel: the fates of human societies
War and Peace
Vanity Fair
The Time Traveler’s Wife
The Iliad
Emma
The Blind Assassin
The Kite Runner
Mrs. Dalloway
Great Expectations
American Gods
A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius
Atlas Shrugged (I just started this today!)
Reading Lolita in Tehran : a memoir in books
Memoirs of a Geisha
Middlesex
Quicksilver
Wicked : the life and times of the wicked witch of the West
The Canterbury Tales
The Historian : a novel
A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man
Love in the Time of Cholera
Brave New World
The Fountainhead
Foucault’s Pendulum
Middlemarch
Frankenstein
The Count of Monte Cristo
Dracula
A Clockwork Orange
Anansi Boys
The Once and Future King
The Grapes of Wrath
The Poisonwood Bible : a novel
1984
Angels & Demons
The Inferno (and Purgatory and Paradise)
The Satanic Verses
Sense and Sensibility
The Picture of Dorian Gray
Mansfield Park
One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest
To the Lighthouse
Tess of the D’Urbervilles
Oliver Twist
Gulliver’s Travels
Les Misérables
The Corrections
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time
Dune
The Prince
The Sound and the Fury
Angela’s Ashes : a memoir
The God of Small Things
A People’s History of the United States : 1492-present
Cryptonomicon
Neverwhere
A Confederacy of Dunces
A Short History of Nearly Everything
Dubliners
The Unbearable Lightness of Being
Beloved
Slaughterhouse-five
The Scarlet Letter
Eats, Shoots & Leaves
The Mists of Avalon
Oryx and Crake : a novel
Collapse : how societies choose to fail or succeed
Cloud Atlas
The Confusion
Lolita
Persuasion
Northanger Abbey
The Catcher in the Rye
On the Road
The Hunchback of Notre Dame
Freakonomics : a rogue economist explores the hidden side of everything
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance: an inquiry into values
The Aeneid
Watership Down
Gravity’s Rainbow
The Hobbit
In Cold Blood : a true account of a multiple murder and its consequences
White Teeth
Treasure Island
David Copperfield
The Three Musketeers
Check out my "books to read" collection and make a recommendation. Much obliged.
What is your "role" in your family?
Baa, baa.
What indulgence always makes your grocery list?
My mother would claim my entire list would qualify as "indulgences".
And that's why I'm poor.
I just found a bunch of stuff leftover from my previous (slightly pathetic) attempts at a Baltimore Vox meet-up.
Third time's the charm - so who wants to meet-up? When? Where? Why?
Holla!
I went to see Nim's Island today with my son and his father.
I didn't hate it. And that's why I owe Kelly an apology. I've been telling her for weeks how awful it looks and that I wouldn't go see it. But it was cute. Light, not too heavy and happy endings all around. Jodie Foster did a good job in a comedic role that was pretty far from her usual stridant, strong, woman against the world roles. Lots of animals to keep my son entertained. Beautiful scenery. His dad hated it, but he never likes anything, so... Yep. We liked it.
on It's Mother's Day.